Moving and movement

Sep 10

We most typically think of moving as the physical shifting of the space we call home and the contents within it, but there are so many more layers than that. Moving is like a dance - one that requires choreography, costumes, teamwork and more than a bit of muscle.

The actual relocation of one’s belongings is the culmination of many moving parts unified into one seamless tango. The heirlooms get swathed in yards of gossamer bubble wrap, the heavy lifters stretch and practice their pliés as they lift with their legs (never the back!), the elevators are reserved, and the overalls donned in preparation of the stage call.

Behind the scenes is the heart and soul of it, as moving is as much a mental and emotional shift as a material one. This is especially true for our elders, as moving can feel more like an uprooting rather than a laying down of roots - doubly so if the move itself is causing stress to the family. Sometimes our dear ones are too close - we get stuck in certain rhythms or movements, we step on each other’s toes, or we have a hard time navigating who exactly is going to take the lead.

As with many dance forms, one needs a good, solid partner. One who is graceful and makes it look effortless, but who knows the dance floor well and who can keep their partner on the even, polished parquet. All of it needs to be choreographed by someone who has a bit of distance, who can see the strengths and challenges of the partner in order to create a space best suited for their needs and style - and who can do all of this in rhinestones. But in sensible shoes: it IS still a move, after all.

Finally, the most important element is the trust of the client: while Fred was steering the ship in his ever-dapper way, Ginger was the real powerhouse, doing it “backwards and in high heels”. The emotional work of allowing a used-to-be stranger take charge of relocating your entire material world is the REAL heavy lifting. It’s always an honor to meet different dance partners, to get to know their favorite ways to cut a rug, and to see them thriving as they find their rhythm in their new home.